the over the shoulder text reader

i cant fuckin stand these people. i dont knowhow you feel about it, but when i am texting and someone comes to see what i am writing, it annoys me to limits past what i am capable of feeling. i just dont understand the motive for one, its not about you, why do you care? and secondly i can't wrap my brain around the lack of respect that these people have and that they are so blatantly flaunting that lack of respect. one day i hope someone does it to me and im in the middle of writing, "ya im hanging out with some asshole"...not that i would ever hang out with assholes but you get the idea of what i am trying to say. i mean the very idea of poking your head into someones text is like the equivalent of walking into somone in the bathroom i would say, you dont want to know what they are doing in there, though you have a pretty good idea, and you shouldnt want to know because it does not affect your life in any way at all. now if you are with a friend and you are texting another friend that you both know and its about something like lets meet up here and now, or whatever then its not so bad. but if you have no idea whats being texted and the person doing the texting is not letting you in on it, then dont go look at whats going on and try to get inside information on their life, or whatever you want to know. the bottom line is it dpes not concern you or the person who sent the first text would have sent it to you as well, so why do these people feel that they have to look in on whats going on? do they have so little going on in their life that they are jealous that they are not getting texted? that sounds pretty lame to me.